Hello my fans, lol.
It's been a month and few days since you last heard from me. No vex. I should try to stick to sending a newsletter on a particular day of the week.
I know I said I was going to stop writing about relationship and stuff. I'm trying, but I can't help but talk about this: do nice things for your babe! This isn't gender specific or anything. He/she doesn't have to ask. Just do it.
What keeps the relationship going? The "spice." The continuous and intentional efforts that both of make to keep the relationship intact. (Be continuous and intentional about God too, so that's your fire will not off. You can't lose both ways, y'know)
Going on dates (is not the same as "going out"), getting them something just because "they said they wanted it", writing them nice notes and being there for them generally is part of it. Not everytime, "I love you, I love you." Do something different, do something that shows you care.
He doesn't have to ask. She's doesn't have to ask. You can't always "not have money." At least, let there be difference when you have and when you don't.
This topic is very controversial and again, it isn't gender specific. But as a female, I'd retreat if it seems like I'm the only one that keeps doing the nice things. I think the same goes for the men. But someone can come and say "it's like you wait for me to do something before you do yours." Or, "I don't have to do something because you did one. It's not a competition."
Omo, I no even sabi. Stick to the relationship with the Father, and when it's time to marry, just tell your parents and church to do arranged marriage for you.
Okay, that's for that chapter.
I've always wanted to talk about emotional abuse and manipulations. Definitely not now. I probably need something similar to a trigger, lol. Emphasis on similar. Then I'll come here to rant.
I haven't consumed any form of video that isn't WhatsApp status or Instagram reel on a long time. The last book I read in a long time was Rosewater, Tade Thompson. I'm not sure I like the book, but I finished it. You can read it if you love Sci-fi books.
I also got a job about 3 weeks ago. It's a remote one and I'm starting to really like it. I'm still broke, but it's a work in progress.
I miss school, mainly because it's a source of income and I miss my friends. And maybe, I miss school work too, only a tiny bit.
Honestly, I miss writing. Writing to you and writing in general. I wish I'd go out and interact with people more often.
I don't know how saying "I love you" would feel to you, my friend, but I genuinely want to see you win. I want you to get that job, to pass that test, to be happy, to see your business grow and to see your finance boom.
Bye for now.
*Sings "opomulero" as I exit the room.
I'd have said I agree with this, but how can one agree with what one doesn't have? Sighs...
Patapata, December 31, God will do my own for me ðŸ˜